You cannot imagine our surprise as we sat at the Bangkok airport waiting for our plane, when Ken's parents Nak and Amara Perera casually strolled up to us and picked our jaws off the floor. We had been expecting to meet up with them in Yangon, but they had cleverly caught a flight out of Australia that connected with ours! So a full 5 hours before we had expected to see them, we were busy catching up on their news, explaining our overly deep suntans and Ken's knee. But after 90 days of having been away from them and home, the extra time with them was glorious. It was as though home had found us.
Together we followed the rains to Yangon, where another family reunion took place as Soups raced to hug her dad where he stood waiting to greet her, his future inlaws, and me.
We piled into a chauffered van and took our first good look at Yangon. Wet and green with the monsoon, it is a small city on the verge of being overrun by the jungle. Wide roads, little traffic, well-fed stray dogs. Locals dressed in lungis (like long sarongs), faces smeared with the yellow paste of the root tanaka (they use it as a sunblock and face cream), and chewing pan. Buddhist monks making their morning rounds collecting alms in their big bowls. The city had a quiet and softly-paced air about it.
Everyone drives right-hand vehicles on the right side of the road. Let me try to make that clearer. Car like in Australia. Drive on side like in America. Passengers freak out. This is the result of a high profile fortune teller's advice. Apparently this also accounts for why the political capital was moved to a different city.
The locals are polite and courteous to a fault - they don't even have a word for "no"! We learned that although Myanmar has vast resources in gemstones and precious metals, there is a crime rate of nearly 0%. We started to wonder why. Then we passed by a large government slogan that included the following creed: "Crush all internal and external destructive elements as the common enemy." With such strong language as that, we asked no further questions.
We suffered terribly from too much food. We nearly swooned with rapture over the variety, tastes and sheer quantity of the food, and then nearly swooned for real from the pain of overindulgence. Our host at the inn, a kind Mr. Manocha, took it as his personal duty to keep our plates topped up with every delicacy he could think of.
We walked through the Swedagon temple and marvelled at the sheer flamboyance, luxury and multitude of gold-painted, gilded, carved and decorated images of Buddha, with 20 tonnes of real gold crowning the dome of the central pagoda.
We studied the natural and processed forms of the nation's mined riches at the Gem Museum which is housed on the top floor of a 4-storey building. The remaining 3 stories were dedicated to jewellery stalls where we could buy anything from everyday accessories to the 'let's-rent-an-armoured-car' variety. We immediately set to the task of shopping in earnest for particular items for Supriya, to prepare for the upcoming wedding. After 2 days of intense searching, studying, criticizing, (occassionaly capturing and dragging Ken and myself back into stores as we tried to escape), comparing, and in general obtaining a very good education in precious stones, the wedding shopping was done.
The first night of our stay, we went to a grand buffet dinner held at a magnificent golden restaurant designed as an oriental boat floating on the lake. Amazed at our surroundings, we were further stunned at the guestlist which included half the diplomatic corps and UN FAO personnel with whom Dr. Chaudary worked! Practically all conversations at our dinner tables started with "your excellency"!
The Australian ambassador turned out to be a fellow Canberran, and he invited us to his home for a barbeque. We accepted, and spent a wonderful evening with good food and great company, learning as much as we could about life as a diplomat in Myanmar.
Now, Manila. Ken thinks he isn't capable of eating another bite. We'll see if the Philippines has anything to do about that.
But for now, dear friends, home is only a few sleeps away.
Cheers,
Kim